As far as birthday shopping goes, he seems to like the ‘Surprise Me’ method! He really puts effort and thought into selecting gifts for others, and I think he appreciates it when others take the time to do the same. He says he would like any gift that is thoughtful — it’s not the expense… it’s more the effort.
Spending time with Richard is not always easy because he keeps himself busy. He really seems to enjoy the ‘connection’ with each of his family members, but you’ll find he cuts out fast at the first hint of striving. He operates best with a definite schedule of events and time frame, as he is punctual, he appreciates this from others as well. I know he’s not the only one in this family that likes this. Dad and I spent time with him this past Friday (since he was in town during his vacation due to van trouble). He came along with us to an outdoor concert in Oxnard, and afterward dinner. He is really an interesting and fun young man. We had a great time with him, but the weather was really cold!!